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The Friendships That Matter Will Inconvenience You (And maybe that’s exactly the point)
True friendship is not always convenient. Sometimes, it is in asking for help, showing up, and keeping the door open that trust deepens and community is built.
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6 days ago7 min read


We Call It “Adjustment” — But It’s Usually Just One Person Shrinking
In Indian relationships, “adjustment” is treated like a virtue. A marker of maturity. A sign that you’re reasonable. Proof that you love someone enough to make things work. And somehow, the people most praised for “adjusting” are almost always women. We grow up hearing it early. Adjust a little, beta. Don’t make a big deal out of it. This is how relationships work. You can’t expect everything your way. At first, it sounds harmless. Practical, even. But over time, adjustment s
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Jan 293 min read


Why Women Bear the Burden of Men’s Emotional Instability and How It Leads to the “Nagging” Stereotype
In the many epic tales of romance, from Shakespeare’s time to today’s Netflix rom-coms, one pattern persists: the emotionally unstable man and the woman who takes on the Herculean task of “fixing” him. But why, in the grand saga of love, is it often women who are tasked with the emotional cleanup? Let’s dive into this conundrum and see how societal expectations, gender roles, and a little bit of patriarchy keep women in the role of the “emotional janitor”. The Weight of Emoti
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Jan 294 min read
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