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Nobody taught us how to do this.

Love, sex, relationships. We were handed silence and expected to figure it out. This is where we actually talk about it.

Sex. Vex. Aur Vichaar.

Three things nobody in your family group chat is talking about. But everyone is living through.

This isn't advice from a textbook or a therapist who charges ₹3,000 an hour. It's honest writing about the stuff that keeps you up at night. The almost-relationships. The mixed signals. The bad sex nobody admits to.

The love that felt real until it wasn't.

No judgement. No performance. Just clarity.

Learn to Love Better

Read. Reflect. Unlearn.

A Safe Space to Talk

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Sex

Because nobody explained it properly the first time. And most of us are still winging it.

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Vex

The frustration, the confusion, the "why does this keep happening to me." Yeah. That.

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Vichaar

Opinions, observations, and takes that might make you slightly uncomfortable. In a good way.

Horny, Lonely, Bored, or Seeking Validation? Learn the Difference

Sometimes you’re not horny. You’re lonely, bored, or looking for proof that you still matter. This piece unpacks the difference between desire, loneliness, boredom, and validation so you can stop mistaking emotional hunger for chemistry.

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3 hours ago6 min read

Stone sculpture of two intertwined figures embracing, with textured, weathered surfaces, set against a forested background. Their expressions suggest deep emotion.

Stone sculpture of two intertwined figures embracing, with textured, weathered surfaces, set against a forested background. Their expressions suggest deep emotion.

Overcoming Intimacy Performance Pressure: Breaking Free from the Burden

Sex. It’s supposed to be natural, right? Fun, intimate, connecting. But for many, it becomes a source of stress. A test. A performance. The intimacy performance pressure can weigh heavily on your mind. It creeps in quietly, then shouts loudly. You start to wonder: Am I good enough? Am I doing it right? What if I disappoint? I get it. I’ve been there. And I want to share what I’ve learned about breaking free from this pressure. Because you deserve to enjoy intimacy without

hellosexvexvichaar

Mar 174 min read

Overcoming Intimacy Performance Pressure: Breaking Free from the Burden

Overcoming Intimacy Performance Pressure: Breaking Free from the Burden

The Friendships That Matter Will Inconvenience You (And maybe that’s exactly the point)

True friendship is not always convenient. Sometimes, it is in asking for help, showing up, and keeping the door open that trust deepens and community is built.

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Mar 167 min read

Three friends sitting near a river and talking to each other.

Three friends sitting near a river and talking to each other.

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Here's where you start your journey

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You don't have to carry it alone.

Got something you've never said out loud? A secret, a mistake, a feeling you can't explain to anyone who knows you?

Drop it in the confessional. Anonymous. No fixing. Just acknowledgement.

Enter The Confessional

Love Lock Fence

I've never been in a "serious" relationship before. I just confessed to a girl who I've known for a long time. She said yes. What comes next?

Alex, Bengaluru

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